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Am i the best among the rest?

Am i good in everything?

Am i selfish?

Am i rude?

Am i?

Before i was involved in this project of mine, i never thought of anyone else feelings, self condition, even their self respect. I never thought that i was so unmatured when dealings with other people’s condition. I never thought that they too have their self-esteem. I never thought of this. NEVER..!!!

Before this i can’t control my temper. Even for small things, i will jump and scream to others. I always thought that i am correct. I don’t care about others. As long i know it was correct and follows what i want.

But i just want everything to be done correctly? So..Am i wrong?

Now i’ve changed. I’ve become a new person. I accept others condition. I learn a lot other people’s feeling. I can control my temper. I do this just to improve myself in life..

I was doing some business, where i can help others to increase their income, build up their business plan, organizing their marketing plan, observing and tracking their business status. And i do all these for FREE..!! It’s up to the customer whether they like it or not. I’m doing this to learn more about people surrounding me. And i don’t expect getting money for all these.

There’s one time that i had a little quarrel with this stranger. He is older than me, but he triggered me. I don’t mind talking with this old man, but as long i don’t raise up my voice, i think that’s good enough. But this guy tried to be cocky with me. Yeah i know he’s more matured than me. And i respect him. But can’t you respect me?

I saw this old man’s business going down. So i offer my help. But it turns sour when he tried to show his EGO, like he doesn’t need help from others. Yeah i admit that you’re older than me, so you know a lot of things. But World is keep on turning. Time doesn’t wait for you. Anyhow, you need to accept the new trend in business..

With his cocky attitude, he keep on pushing me..Telling me that i’m so stupid doing this business of mine. He never knew there will be some stupid guy trying to help him to improve his business..Yup..He push me to the limit.. So i answered him “Sir..looking at your condition, i don’t think you can make a good income for you and your family in the way you do your business. So why bothered asking about my way helping others? I got money that i need for me and my family. I got my own marketing plan. I got strategies that FOR SURE it will boost up your income. So what’s up with the ’stupid’ thing? I just want to help you to improve your business operation. Not to listen to your crap. I’m here to help you. If you don’t need me, then tell me.. It’s easy as that..” I replied with my most humble manner.

END UP, THIS OLD EGO MAN SCREAMING AT ME, TELLING THAT I’M NOT PROFESSIONAL ENOUGH AND UNMATURED IN DOING BUSINESS..!! WHAT THE HELL..?? HE’S THE ONE WHO STARTED IT FIRST..HE’S THE ONE WHO KEEP ON TELLING ME ‘STUPID’..!! END UP HE POINT FINGER AT ME LIKE IT’S ALL MY FAULT..!! DAMN IT..!!

Yeah.. I learn new things. People won’t accept their own fault. They will throw it to others.. And that’s SUCKS..!!!

Those who have this kind of attitude, please, STAY AWAY FROM ME..

To all my beloved readers, especially my beloved friends, i’m so sorry for not posting anything lately. It’s been a month i guess.. Well, everybody have their own time for something, right?

Not to say that i give up in blogging, or out of idea. I got something more important to do, which i think it will affect my entire life. And i need to concentrate on that ‘THING’..

Well, Hani, i’m not having an exam or whatever, I’m too old for that..Hehehehe

The rest, i will send you all an email, later.. Or i hope i manage to send it out. Or maybe..? Hmm.. Whatever it is, i still love you all, guys..!!

See you again in next chapter..

Not only content, killer post, connections or leaving comments that can make your site getting lots of traffics, your theme too play a part in order to achieve it..

At first, i thought placing a EntreCard widget anywhere on my sidebar doesn’t effect anything. But after a while, putting it on top did gave me a good traffic and good EC card dropper..Much more better than below..!!

That’s the reason i’ve change my theme. I prefer a sidebar on it’s place, not below or left, I want it on the right and it must be with large fonts and large space for me to put any ads or any widgets. I want my readers to surf on ease when i use this type of theme.

And that’s where i found a very cool theme at Alvin Phang’s site where he runs a contents to giveaway 28 themes of his to those bloggers blog about his contest. It’s easy to participate. Just post about this contest, and leave a comment with your linkback to Alvin. Easy as that..!!

The Cool thing about this theme..

- World’s First Theme To Have Widget Enable Header Boxes

- Added Social Buttons

- Redesign of comment posting

- Integrated Auto Related Post Widgets

- Optimized title header

- Optimized commenting

DAMN..!!! Can you see that? There are so many cool features for this theme.. Ohhh I love it so much..!!

If you want to participate, just click Here

Or if you’re too lazy to participate, you can purchase this theme at $19 only..

I believe Magazine or Newspaper style theme does make you look professional. Once readers drop by, they would say, “WOW..!! Nice theme..!! This guy must be serious in blogging..” But in my opinion, i won’t use those themes as per now, cause i got my own reason for that..!!

So, choose your theme where suit you best. But remember, after applying any themes, be one of the reader and check again whether your theme is easy to surf. Try navigate here or there. If it’s hard to do, just change to a new theme. It’s worth it, trust me..

We all love money.. Full stop.. Nobody in this world hates money.. Unless you’re from lunatic assylum, then maybe money means nothing to you..

Blogging.. Yes, you can make money by blogging.. But do you think you can make a benjamin, if no one know or drop by to your site?

NO..!! You can’t..!!

That’s what i always think of.. Free traffic. But i’m not intend to make money by blogging.. But if someone offers me to do something that can turn it to money, why not?

Traffic is something that can be earn for free.. Just sign up with entrecard, stumble upon and all other social network. I can promise you, if you follow the system correctly, you can get the traffic in less time..!!

But even if you can get so many traffics, the chances for the visitors to click on your ads are less than 1 percent. So do you think you can make money?

I have a friend who start to blog and post about making money by blogging.

Me: Buddy, why you start blogging about making money online?

Him: Cause I want to make money by blogging.

Me: Buddy, don’t start with that niche. Your site haven’t established yet.

Him: Hey, Jeremy.. It’s my site.. I can do whatever I want..!!

Me: Up to you, buddy. I think it’s not a wise thing to start with that. But if you insist, It’s your choice.

End up he did not made any penny. With less visitors and no click on his ads, he give up.

Think about it, my friend. If you can start blogging and get money by doing it, without making connections or joining social network, I salute you.

Remember, traffic come first before making money. Don’t agree with me? Leave a comment..!!

Urgghh..!!! I hate to keep on changing my WordPress Version. Hate to see the message keeps bugging me.. “Your WordPress Version is out of dated. Please Upgrade.” Previously, 2.3.2 and now 2.3.3. Come on, until when you can fix all these shit bugs?

But ever since i use the great plug-in called Wordpress Automatic Plugin, it’s so easy to upgrades..Just a couple of clicks and you’re DONE..!!!

But i think some of you do know about this. So I better stop here.

Thanks to Seeds For Wealth for your information and Techie-Buzz for the great Plug-In..

To those who hates me..Yeah I know. Read my previous post to know why. But sad to say, I will not say sorry for the things I’ve posted. What’s done, let it be. There’s no turning back. Thank You..

For me, blogging can be :-

FUN

- To see some of the visitors drop by and leave comments. Reaction from them on our recent post can improve ourself on writing for the next post. It’s FUN, doesn’t it?

HATE

- To see more visitor concerns on the topic. But less of them leave comments. I should categorize them as Silent Readers.

- When all the things we need, we can’t make it work (Theme, traffic, keywords)

- No ideas on what to post

IRRITATING

- Spam Comment

- When reading others post (Like my previous post)

All these thing we should put into consideration when blogging. Don’t expect for everything to be perfect. Blogging is not easy, though.

I can see most of the bloggers gave up in blogging. I don’t get it. The reason they come up for quitting includes -

No Idea on what to post

This is the most stupid reason I can see. Those who come up with this reason, I call them LOSERS. Don’t tell me there’s nothing to post. There always something happen in blogosphere. You can share your life stories, your idea, your experience, you can share everything even if it’s not related to your niche. So why quit?

Tips – Go read others post and give your best opinion about it. Readers love opinion. Give it to them. Easy, isn’t it?

No visitors

Don’t expect to published a killer content and see the traffic flows to your site. It won’t happen.

Join more social network sites. Mybloglog, Blogcatalog, StumbleUpon, Entrecard, etc. all these site provide good traffic to your site. So why wait? Quick join all these and get free traffic..!!

Tips – Don’t be an introvert even when you’re one of it. Be as aggressive as you can be, leave comment on others site, start making conversations. Don’t wait for others to start. That’s not the best way to communicate with others. Remember, no communication = no visitors

Not attracted in blogging

Blogging without connections between bloggers results not attracted in blogging anymore. Do you like to blog for yourself to read? Blogging should be two way communications between blog author and blog reader. Without connections, you’re nothing.

Tips – Start making friends with others. But don’t take advantage on your friendship. It ruined everything. Offer them some help, but don’t expect a return from them. Be sincere. That’s the most important attitude you need to have. Bloggers love that.

Now, do you still want to quit blogging? If yes, maybe the reason is because you have no time for it. So do the best for yourself. But if it related to one of the reason above, please revise again your weakness. Share it with others and seek help from them. You can learn from there, and who knows one day you be the best blogger among all..!!!

Let me reveal my secret.. I HATE BLOGSPOT SO MUCH..!! But the users, i find some of them just crapping themselves. Let’s make it short. I hate to write a lot about it..

Most of the bloggers use Blogspot. And i can say MOST of them post about making money online and how much they gained money by blogging. WTF..!! Is it good to be true?

DAMN NO..!!! I DON’T THINK SO..!!

Cut the crap, buddy.. If you can get money via blogging, why in the world you still use BLOGSPOT? Why don’t you use the money you received and buy your own domain name and hosting?

“October Income - $580″ - Bullshit

“November Income” - $720 - Fuck You

“December Income” - $870 - Yeah Rightttttttt…….

Come on, get your sick ass and face the reality. Do you think i’m gonna swallow all your crap when you’re telling how much money you get by blogging?

YOU SICK FAKE BLOGGERS..!!!

Owning a domain name and hosting shows that you’re serious in blogging. So do you expect for most of the blog readers to read and amazed on how much money you make, but your domain name is still XXX.blogspot.com? Ha Ha Ha Ha..

Head to GoDaddy.com and purchase one. They’re the cheapest..

Wait..!! What?? You don’t have that kind of money?

THEN USE BLOGSPOT AND CHANGE YOUR NICHE, JACKASS..!!

I don’t like to post something like this. But it seems that most of the noobies blogs about making money online but using blogger.com platform. Get a life, noobies..!!

And if you have purchased your own domain name, please don’t park it using blogger.com host. It will make your life miserable..!!

*If you think that this post point to some of you, then CUT THE CRAP AND GET A LIFE..!!!*

Recently i do a survey on bloggers current job. The reason for me doing this is because I wanted to know how well they can maintain their blog post. The most answers that i received was..”I’m SELF EMPLOYED!! I got lots of time to maintain it.” So i ask one of the blogger whether he’s doing a business to support his life but the answer shocked me..

“No..I’m just blogging. From there i make money. Previously i had a good job but i find out that by blogging, i can make more than my salary..So why i need to waste my time on daily work whereas i can just stay in my house, doing what i loved most, and get the benefits from it..!! “

I’ve always ask myself, “Does all these bloggers have their own life? Or just sit in front of their computers to see how much revenue they made via blogging?”

Most of us are bloggers. When i step outside from my house, my head keep on asking whether all the people that i met are bloggers. Sometimes i want to stop them and ask whether they did have a blog of their own. Lucky my inner self stop me from doing that.

Another question that always pop up in my head..

“Do they have their reality friends? Or they just make friends with the stranger in blogosphere?”

This is what i scared most. What if all my reality friends turn away from me, because I put all my concentrations in my blog site and making friends with strangers, doesn’t that make me an exile?

Damn it.. I shouldn’t start this survey..!!

I Say

- Blogging is part of our life. Not whole of our life. Don’t risk yourself just because you want to keep your blog post updated. If you have no idea on what to post, take a rest. Not able to update for one day doesn’t mean that your blog is going to die..

- Have a good balance in your life. Don’t mess it..

- Drop by and be friend with Moolahking

I have good friends in both reality and blogosphere.. Do you have yours?

In my older post, i talk about how you can gain traffic using Rsshugger. Since then, I’ve been checking my stats to see any improvement on getting traffic from it. Sad to say, until now, RssHugger still haven’t provide me with ONE traffic or ONE RSS SUBSCRIBERS..!! NONE..!! How worst it could be, huh?

I still remember the excerpt taken from RssHugger website..

“RssHugger get blog owner and blog readers connected.”

“Yeah right..!! I don’t received any from your site..!! Duhh.. Or are you saying that none of my post interest any blog readers? Damn you..!!”

Previously, Collin Lahay expected to get at least 50,000 bloggers to join RssHugger, but then he changed his goal to 250,000 bloggers to sign up, which he think it possible to met since there are 112 millions registered blogs, with about 175,000 new blogs registered per day. But then, I only see 837 blogs registered to RssHugger.. Do you think you can achieve that, Collin?

RssHugger is created when this Collin read about that John “Boring Guy” Chow compete with Shoemoney on who of the two had more new RSS subscribers for their blog in a month.. Thus gave him an idea to create a network, where you can get blog readers to subscribe to your RSS, and giving you a good traffic flow when you write a new post. Great idea, though..But it seems doesn’t work at all.

My Review

Why not so many blog readers preferred to drop by to any blog using RssHugger? It’s probably because:-

1. RssHugger navigation are not user friendly, readers had to spent more time searching blogs that suit them best. There are so many steps to do before reaching any blogs. Search - Blog Directories - Subject or Category - Blog URL with description.. What The Hell..?? If I am one of the blog searcher, I will leave immediately..!!

2. All in Black And Orange text color with NO BLOG AUTHOR IMAGE..!!

3. Some readers preferred “About Me” area or Image of the blog owner or atleast create a forum or messaging site where members can send / receive message from other members. These can create a GOOD ENVIRONMENT WEBSITE to some readers. RssHugger is lack of these 3 important things. Without it, RssHugger looks like a DEAD WEBSITE..!!

I say

- Re-design your site

- Change your lame LOGO..!! It SUCKS..!!

These should be Collin Lahay’s goal to achieve as per now.. If not, just close your site. It’s not worth signing up.. And stop reading John ‘Boring Guy’ Chow reviewed of your site. He’s not gonna help you even if you HUGGED him..YUCCKKK..!!!