Ego Man and Me
Am i the best among the rest?
Am i good in everything?
Am i selfish?
Am i rude?
Am i?
Before i was involved in this project of mine, i never thought of anyone else feelings, self condition, even their self respect. I never thought that i was so unmatured when dealings with other people’s condition. I never thought that they too have their self-esteem. I never thought of this. NEVER..!!!
Before this i can’t control my temper. Even for small things, i will jump and scream to others. I always thought that i am correct. I don’t care about others. As long i know it was correct and follows what i want.
But i just want everything to be done correctly? So..Am i wrong?
Now i’ve changed. I’ve become a new person. I accept others condition. I learn a lot other people’s feeling. I can control my temper. I do this just to improve myself in life..
I was doing some business, where i can help others to increase their income, build up their business plan, organizing their marketing plan, observing and tracking their business status. And i do all these for FREE..!! It’s up to the customer whether they like it or not. I’m doing this to learn more about people surrounding me. And i don’t expect getting money for all these.
There’s one time that i had a little quarrel with this stranger. He is older than me, but he triggered me. I don’t mind talking with this old man, but as long i don’t raise up my voice, i think that’s good enough. But this guy tried to be cocky with me. Yeah i know he’s more matured than me. And i respect him. But can’t you respect me?
I saw this old man’s business going down. So i offer my help. But it turns sour when he tried to show his EGO, like he doesn’t need help from others. Yeah i admit that you’re older than me, so you know a lot of things. But World is keep on turning. Time doesn’t wait for you. Anyhow, you need to accept the new trend in business..
With his cocky attitude, he keep on pushing me..Telling me that i’m so stupid doing this business of mine. He never knew there will be some stupid guy trying to help him to improve his business..Yup..He push me to the limit.. So i answered him “Sir..looking at your condition, i don’t think you can make a good income for you and your family in the way you do your business. So why bothered asking about my way helping others? I got money that i need for me and my family. I got my own marketing plan. I got strategies that FOR SURE it will boost up your income. So what’s up with the ’stupid’ thing? I just want to help you to improve your business operation. Not to listen to your crap. I’m here to help you. If you don’t need me, then tell me.. It’s easy as that..” I replied with my most humble manner.
END UP, THIS OLD EGO MAN SCREAMING AT ME, TELLING THAT I’M NOT PROFESSIONAL ENOUGH AND UNMATURED IN DOING BUSINESS..!! WHAT THE HELL..?? HE’S THE ONE WHO STARTED IT FIRST..HE’S THE ONE WHO KEEP ON TELLING ME ‘STUPID’..!! END UP HE POINT FINGER AT ME LIKE IT’S ALL MY FAULT..!! DAMN IT..!!
Yeah.. I learn new things. People won’t accept their own fault. They will throw it to others.. And that’s SUCKS..!!!
Those who have this kind of attitude, please, STAY AWAY FROM ME..








